Monday, September 26, 2011

Daybook - September 26, 2011

Cow kissin'


outside my window . . .  Sunny, hot & humid.  Where is the lovely fall weather?

I am listening to . . . Mozart

I am wearing . . . T-shirt & capris

I am so grateful . . . that I don’t have to leave the house all day!  My favorite kind of day! Yes, I am a major homebody.  J

I'm pondering . . ..how to get my kids motivated while they are still very tired from a busy weekend showing cows.

I am reading . . . “Major Pettigrew’s Last Stand”.  I’m almost done and I love it!  It’s well written and fun.

I am thinking . . .  not much thinking going on.  What is it about being away that shuts down my brain.  I think I need some more serious sleep before I can get my brain jump started.

I am creating . . creating?  How about a mess?  Not what you meant?  J

from the kitchen . . not much going on there. 

real education in our home . . I’ve been doing Morning Time with the girls using ideas from Cindy and Ambleside Online.   It seems much more like REAL education compared to some of the regular curriculum that I use during the rest of the school day.

rhythm and beauty in our home . . . some major unpacking and laundry needs to be done before we will find any rhythm or beauty.

the week ahead. . . contains only one doctor appt so there won’t be too much running around.
:-: 

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Churchill Quote


"We contend that for a nation to tax itself into prosperity is like a man standing in a bucket and trying to lift himself up by the handle."   

Winston Churchill

Saturday, June 04, 2011

Book Review - "Dancing to the Precipice"

"Dancing to the Precipice: The Life of Lucie de la Tour du Pin, Eyewitness to an Era" by Caroline Moorehead


My education had a big hole in it....well, many holes. One was that I had no idea what the French Revolution was all about and what happened.  I found “Dancing to the Precipice” recommended on a book list and decided to read it. 

From Publishers Weekly:  “Educated to wait on Marie Antoinette, the marquise Lucie de la Tour du Pin (1770-1853) instead precariously survived a devastating revolution, an emperor, two restorations and a republic. Drawing on Lucie's memoirs and those of her contemporaries, Moorehead (Gellhorn) uses Lucie's descriptions of both personal events and the ever-changing French political atmosphere to portray the nobility's awkward shifts with each new event and the impact they have on Lucie and her diplomat husband, Fréédric. A woman with both court-honed aristocratic manners and rough farm skills (earned in the Revolution's wake during her rural New York exile), Lucie benefited from passing platonic relationships with Napoleon and Wellington, Talleyrand, and countless salon personalities. Lucie's terror during the anarchy of the Revolution remains palpable in her memoirs centuries later. Moorehead obviously admires Lucie, but she gives a convincing and entertaining portrait of an intelligent, shrewd, unpretentious woman and the turbulent times she lived through and testified to in her memoirs.”

Having known nothing about the French Revolution, I have to say, I was shocked by the brutality and the senselessness of much of it. The contrast between the American Revolution and French Revolution is quite striking. Reading the book also gave me some insight into the French people themselves.  The fashion...during the French revolution many of their fashions where political statements.  It was also interesting to see how most of them threw off all religion and embraced the new philosophies of the time.

I found the book fascinating overall.  It was often difficult to keep the names straight and remember who was who.  I felt the author painted Lucie as a woman without fault which  I found annoying at times.  But Lucie was an extraordinary woman who lived through some extremely difficult times.

Now I think I should try to tackle "Reflections on the Revolution in France" by Edmund Burke. Hmmm?  We'll see.

A few quotes from the book:
"'Amid all these pleasures,' [Lucie] wrote, 'we were laughing and dancing our way to the precipice.'"


"For the philosophers of the Enlightenment and their friends, the salons were the one place where ideas of this kind could be aired in safety, where no questions were deemed too sensitive to debate, no thoughts too perilous to think.  Many severed their links with their religious upbringings."


"Even now, with the revolution turning upside down all ideas about society, the nuances of 18th-century fidelity hung on.  To show such evident love for one's husband was unusual, even a little absurd; but among her contemporaries Lucie was unusual, sometimes disconcertingly so."


"Over the next two years, the securalisation of the Church would go further than anyone had imagined, with churches demolished or turned into warehouses, church bells and plate melted down, religious orders made destitute, and priests turned into public servants.:


"As [Alexander] Hamilton observed, it was hard to go on supporting a revolution that had plainly substituted 'to the mild and beneficent religion of the Gospel a gloomy, persecuting and desolating atheism'."


"The revolution, argued the emigre journalists, had turned out to be synonymous not with liberty but with destruction."

Friday, June 03, 2011

Five Question Friday



1. If you had to choose, how would you prefer to choose to spend money...on landscaping or a pool?
POOL!  We want a pool so bad we can hardly stand it.  But the economy....well you know.  Maybe next summer.

2. Death penalty, yay or nay?
Well, I'm for it!

3. What's the worst thing your kid has gotten into when you turned your back/blogged/showered/blinked?
Hmmm?  Actually my kids where pretty good about not getting into things.  There was the time my son put silly-puddy in his sister's hair...right before a dentist appointment. Not only did I have to get it out, I had to hurry!  I was not amused.  It was also so unlike my son.  I think it was the worst thing he did as a child.

4. How often do you REALLY go to the dentist?
Twice per year.  I'm pretty religious about keeping up with check up appointments.

5. What is your favorite animal (doesn't have to be a pet-type animal)?
Not a big animal fan.  My mom and sister will cry if they hit a squirrel...and animal movies where the animal always dies, they weep.  But somehow that gene passed me by.  I guess if pressed I'd have to say a dog.  I have one.  I tolerate her.  :)

The Homeschool Mother's Journal


In my life this week...
I was struck down with the flu last Saturday and I am still not feeling completely well. I'm finding it very frustrating!  But I was not able to rest at home as I would have liked.  I had two doctor appointments that I had to take my kids to this week.  Both of them involved lots of driving and waiting in waiting rooms.  Why is waiting so exhausting?  Oh, and then we baled hay on Wednesday.  That is always a busy, exciting, stressful day...but we got all the hay in just before it rained!  Success!

In our homeschool this week...
Homeschooling?  Do I homeschool?  While school didn't really happen much this week because of sickness, doctors' appointment, hay baling and such...we are not done for the year yet.  All of our online classes have ended  and I find that along with providing my kids with a good education, they also add structure to our days.  With that structure gone, I need to add in my own structure.  


We still have math to finish. (Doesn't every homeschool have math left at the end of the year?)  We also have lots of History to get through.  I think it will be nice to spend some concentrated time on these subjects.

Places we're going and people we're seeing...
Doctors and doctors. 

My favorite thing this week was...
Having a little extra time to read some of my favorite Homeschool blogs. Here are some of my favorites:
Afterthoughts by Brandy
The Common Room by Headmistress
Ordo Amoris by Cindy
Fuel the Muse by Debra


Homeschool questions/thoughts I have..
I've been thinking that I need to do more thinking about homeschooling.  I've been running on auto-pilot lately.  And even though it is the end of the school year, I want to finish well instead of fizzle out. (Which sadly happens most years.)  I need some inspiration.

A photo, video, link, or quote to share...
Well, I shared this in a previous post but I think I'll share it again.  Cathy was a guest poster on the Circe Institute blog.  She wrote a great article on ordering your day and coming up with a flexible schedule.  Here is the link: Starting Places: On the Rightly Ordered Schedule

Thursday, June 02, 2011

Miscellaneous Musings

Starting Places: On the Rightly Ordered Schedule
An encouraging article on the Circe Institute blog written by a homeschooling mom on ordering the day.  This is something I always strive to do but somehow always end up falling flat but Cathy has some wonderful suggestions for making it work.

Seven Thoughts on Time Management
Keeping with the theme of schedules and time management, Doug Wilson wrote out seven thoughts on time management:

  1. The point is fruitfulness, not efficiency.
  2. Build a fence around your life, and keep that fence tended.
  3. Perfectionism paralyzes.
  4. Fill in the corners.
  5. Plod. Keep at it. Slow and steady wins the race.
  6. Take in more than you give out.
  7. Use and reuse. State and restate. Learn and relearn. Develop what you know. Cultivate what you have.
Words of Grace has a post on finding free Christian book for the Kindle.  I love my Kindle, but as my husband has reminded me, those seemingly small charges for books add up quickly.  So I'm on the lookout for as many free books as I can find.

On a related note, this Kindle book is now being offered free for a limited time.  I highly recommend anything by Wendell Barry.

On a completely different note, I thought this blog post by Sherry of Semicolon was very good.  It's an encouraging article for all of us with Prodigals in our lives.  And don't we all have Prodigals in our lives? 


              Saturday, May 21, 2011

              The Homeschool Mother's Journal



              In my life this week…
              Company, company and more company.  I also had to take my son to get an MRI Arthrogram.  I was told it could take 3 hours….it took 5!  I don’t understand how sitting in a waiting room for 5 hours makes me SO tired!  The radiologist says he has some kind of tear in his shoulder which explains why it pops out so easily.  Looks like he will be having surgery soon.

               In our homeschool this week…
              Did I tell you we had company this week?  It’s hard to school with company…even with very wonderful, supportive, washes my dishes company.  I really think it’s me…I get so distracted!
               
              I’ve decided that since the two older girls will be done with online classes soon that I will just hold off on doing History now for those couple of weeks…then we will be doing all History all the time in June. 

              My favorite thing this week was…
              Realizing how far my 4th grader has come in her reading this year.  She was barely reading at the beginning of this year…now she is inhaling books.  She’s just like her brother was…a late bloomer when it comes to reading.

              What’s working/not working for us…
              We need a schedule…and we need to stick to it….that’s all there is to it!

              Thoughts I have…
              This whole crazy thing called homeschooling really works.  It’s hard and messy and disrespected but the results are worth it.  My son got on the Dean’s list for the 4th time of his 4 semesters at college.  Very cool!

              A photo, video, link, or quote to share…
              “True education is a kind of never ending story-a matter of continual beginnings, of habitual fresh starts, of persistent newness.” --J.R.R. Tolkien

              Five Question Friday....a little late





              1. Do you and your spouse go to bed at the same time?
              Almost always. We like to go to bed early and wake up early. I’m a morning person but my hubby is one of those disgustingly cheerful morning people…sometimes a bit too cheery for me.

              2. A question for the ladies...What kind of facial hair do you like on your man?
              LOL!! My man doesn’t have any facial hair….ok, a little but he couldn’t grow a beard or mustache if he tried…which is fine with me. Someone called him "American Hairless" once….it fits.

              3. What's the worst vacation you've ever taken?
              Oh that’s easy…when I was in high school my parents took us canoeing in the Minnesota boundary waters. We had to carry in everything we needed for something like a week. We slept in tents, cooked all our food, had to portage between lakes…no bathrooms, no showers, no running water, no electricity. There were LOTS of mosquitos. I hated it! To this day I prefer a really nice hotel with lots of amenities for my vacations!

              4. What's the first-ever blog you followed?
              I’m not sure but it might have been my friend Cindy’s blog, Ordo Amoris.

              5. Do you enjoy amusement parks?
              Not much. I prefer peace and quiet…something amusement parks are not.

              Monday, April 18, 2011

              Love that motivates obedience

              "The key to a godly life is not more and more self-generated effort. Instead, Jesus is saying, 'Love me and your obedience will flow naturally from that love.' The secret to obedience isn't formulaic steps found in a self-help book. It is a relentless pursuit of love for him. How then do I cultivate the sincerity of love that motivates obedience? By focusing more intently on his love for me than on my love for him, more on his obedience than mine, more on his faithfulness than mine, more on his strengths than mine."


              From Shared from Comforts from the Cross: Celebrating the Gospel One Day at a Time by Elyse M. Fitzpatrick

              Tuesday, April 12, 2011

              Movie review - Enchanted April

              "To those who appreciate Wisteria and Sunshine"

              This is one of my favorite movies…if not the favorite.  I call Enchanted April a vacation in a DVD case.  I always feel uplifted and relaxed when I’m done watching it.  And why not, it’s like you are transported to a beautiful castle in Italy.

              This is the story of two married ladies in England during winter.  There is rain and rain and more rain.  The rain seems to reflect their lives at this point as well as their marriages.  Lottie feels inexplicably drawn to an advertisement to rent a castle in Italy for the month of April.  She can’t get it out of her mind.  She talks Rose, a woman she has never met before, into joining her.  To defray the cost of the rent they advertise for two more ladies to join them.  They receive only two replies.  So the four ladies set off for Italy.  There they come to see themselves and their lives in a different way and find healing.

              It is said that only the best stories have a theme of redemption within them.  I see a kind of redemption in this story and I think that is why I like it so much.  I don’t want to give too much away, but I do want to encourage you to watch it and tell me what you think.


              Saturday, April 09, 2011

              Book Review - "The Housekeeper and the Professor" by Yoko Ogawa


              I don’t know where I heard about this book but it’s been sitting around on my Kindle for a while so I decided to give it a read.  The story pulled me right in from the start.   The characters are all so interesting and the story intriguing.  This is a quiet story…not a lot of action…it’s about human relationships.

              A mathematics professor has been in a car accident and his short term memory only lasts for 80 minutes.  He does remember everything from his past….right up until the accident.  The professor is getting old, so the housekeeper is hired to clean and cook for him.  The Professor pins notes to his jacket to help him remember things.  He clips on a note that reminds him he has a housekeeper.  Every morning she has to re-introduce herself.  The housekeeper has a son that the Professor calls Root…because the housekeeper’s son has a square head and it reminds the professor of the square root sign.  As the days go on the Housekeeper and Root learn how to deal with the Professor’s 80 minute memory.  They treat him with respect and dignity.  The Professor loves numbers.  He was a mathematics professor before the accident and he is always ready to pass on his enthusiasm for numbers.  He is often giving a little lesson to the Housekeeper…and she begins to see beauty in numbers herself.  

              Numbers.  I love numbers.  There’s beauty there, regularity, dependability.  Patterns; beautiful patterns.  I think that numbers point us to attributes of God.  This made me especially enjoy this lovely story that had a few little lessons about numbers tucked here and there.  But there is so much more to this beautiful story.  It’s about loyalty, respect, caring, giving of yourself and friendship.   Even if you don’t like numbers and mathematics class filled you with dread, you will appreciate this story very much…and maybe you will also begin to see the beauty in numbers yourself.

              Some of my favorite quotes in the book:

              “Eternal truths are ultimately invisible, and you won’t find them in material thing or natural phenomena, or even in human emotions.  Mathematics, however, can illuminate them, can give them expression – in fact, nothing can prevent it from doing so.”

              “Math has proven the existence of God, because it is absolute and without contradiction; but the devil must exist as well, because we cannot prove it.”

              “He treated Root exactly as he treated prime numbers.  For him, primes were the base on which all other natural numbers relied, and children were the foundation of everything worthwhile in the adult world.”

              Friday, April 08, 2011

              Five Question Friday


              If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be? 

              One thing?!  There are many things I would like to change about myself.  Uppermost in my mind right now would be my energy level.  Normally I have very little energy.  The problem is I have lots of ambition to go with it.  So I spend a lot of time resting wishing I could do many other things.  Can be extremely frustrating at times.

              Write about a time when you got lost.

              I can’t think of one time I ever got lost.  I have “direction angels” that always seem to point me in the right direction.

              Camping or 5 star hotel?

              5 star hotel….no question!  I did a lot of camping when I was a kid.  I was a girl scout and my mom was the leader.  She loved camping.  I suppose I did at the time too.  But we did so much of it that I think I reached my camping limit. 

              Have you donated blood? 

              Never.  I have tired blood.  I don’t think anyone would want it.

              Do you have a budget or do you 'fly by' most months? 

              Budget?  What’s a budget?


              The Homeschool Mother's Journal - 12



              In my life this week…
              I’m frustrated because I’m still dealing with some health issues that are making me feel SO tired.   Which means the house is falling apart around me and school is not getting the amount of attention that I feel it needs.

              In our homeschool this week…
              Things are chugging along despite my fatigue.  I’m thankful for online classes that take the pressure off me and keep the kids working.  History is the big thing we are behind on.  What I will probably do is spend big chunks of time on history once the online classes are done at the end of May.  Looks like we will be schooling well into June this year.

              Places we’re going and people we’re seeing…
              The girls are going on an orienteering weekend with the local Boy Scouts troop.   Yes, they are allowing girls to participate.  They are so excited to get the chance to camp and run around in the woods all weekend. 

              I will be going to the Opera.  LOL!  How’s that for a contrast.  I’m going to see Juan Diego Florez in Le Comte Ory at the Metropolitan Opera!  I’m so excited.  This will be the third opera I’ve attended this season.  I’ve come to appreciate and enjoy opera more and more. 

              What’s working/not working for us…
              I still love Math U See and despite not feeling well and not getting everything done….we are getting math done and the girls really understand it.  Another thing working for us is Latin for Children.  This is a very well done and well laid out curriculum. 

              Homeschool questions/thoughts I have…
              I’ve been thinking about how I can order or train the affections in my girls.  I’m reading Abolition of Man by C. S. Lewis.  Such a little book with such depth!   Here are some quotes from Lewis on the subject of training our children’s affections:

              “The task of the modern educator is not to cut down jungles but to irrigate deserts.  The right defense against false sentiments is to inculcate just sentiments.  By starving the sensibility of our pupils we only make them easier prey to the propagandist when he comes.  For famished nature will be avenged and a hard heart is no infallible protection against a hard heart.”

              “St. Augustine defines virtue as ordo amoris, the ordinate condition of the affections in which every object is accorded that kind of degree of love which is appropriate to it.  Aristotle says that the aim of education is to make the pupil like and dislike what he ought.  When the age for reflective thought comes, the pupil who has been thus trained in ‘ordinate affections’ or ‘just sentiments’ will easily find the first principles in Ethics; but to the corrupt man they will never be visible at all and he can make no progress in that science.”

              A photo, video, link, or quote to share…
              For more on ordering our children’s affections check out Cindy’s blog, Ordo Amoris.  She has a lot to say about it and many practical ideas as well.

              Thursday, April 07, 2011

              Five-a-Month goals - April 2011

              This a little late considering we are a week into April.  But better late than never.


              Here’s my review of March:

              I will have a Quiet Time where I read my Bible and pray every morning. 
              I’ve done pretty well here.  I was able to catch up on my Reading through the Bible in a year.  I was about 2 ½ weeks behind at one point.  Yikes!  I’ve been having regular quiet times with the Lord and it makes such a difference!

              I will follow my diet of low-carbing; taking in more healthy fats like coconut oil, ghee and raw butter; eating nutritionally dense foods and no snacking every day.
              Doing really well here as well.  I’ve never eaten this well in my entire life.

              I will exercise 5 times per week using the PACE program.
              Still need lots of work here!  Been very sporatic.

              I will faithfully school my girls and cover every subject that is scheduled for that day.
              Needs lots of work here….been very inconsistent.

              I will finish reading 2 books this month.  This is a small goal but I think it’s a good place to start.  I love to read and usually have several books going at once but I’m not good at finishing those books.
              I’ve done much better with reading.  I’ve been turning away from the computer and the DVD player and turning toward a book…actually my Kindle…which I LOVE!  I’ve read 4 books and a short story during March. 
              This month I’ve read:

              Under the Tuscan Sun by Frances Mayes
              Charlotte Collins by Jennifer Becton
              Marie Lucas a Short Story by Jennifer Becton
              The Housekeeper and the Professor by Yoko Ogawa
              Only Mr. Darcy Will Do by Kara Louise


              For April 2011, here are my Five-a-Month Goals, Lord helping me:

              Again, I want to have time with the Lord every morning, keeping up with my Reading through the Bible in a year plan.

              I want to continue to low carb and not snack.  I also want to make sure I am eating nutritionally dense foods every day.

              Again, I want to exercise 5 times per week using the PACE program.


               I also want to make sure I am much more faithful homeschooling each day.  I want to make sure I get through every subject each day although I want to balance that with making sure I am educating my children and not just trying to get through a checklist.

              As I look at the books I read last month, I’m unhappy with the amount of light fiction in the list.  I want to add in more substantial non-fiction and fiction this month.  I hope to get through two non-fiction works and one worthwhile fiction.

              Saturday, April 02, 2011

              Book Review: Charlotte Collins: A Continuation of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice by Jennifer Becton


              I actually liked this book.  I needed something light to read and since I love Jane Austen I thought I would give this book a try.  I give the author a lot of credit.  It can’t be easy to write a book that is a sequel to Pride and Prejudice.  While she is no Jane Austen, I think she did a good job and came up with a fun and interesting plot line. 

              The story picks up 7 years after Pride and Prejudice ends.  Mr. Collins is killed in a carriage accident leaving Charlotte a widow.  He leaves behind no children; the only child they had, a girl, died in infancy.  Charlotte now has to make a life for herself.  Her sister Maria is not married so she comes to live with Charlotte so that Charlotte can be her chaperon out in society since their parents are now quite old and confined to their home.  Maria hopes to make a good match.  While Charlotte would prefer to live out her life in peace and quiet, she accompanies Maria to country dances and dinner parties.  Along the way their are many twists and turns in the story making Charlotte question many of her preconceived ideas on love and marriage.  

              Friday, April 01, 2011

              Five Question Friday



              1. Have you ever had surgery?
              I don’t know if it’s technically considered having surgery…but I had 4 C-sections.  I think in one way C-sections are worse than surgery because you have to be AWAKE during the whole thing.   It freaks me out that I am awake while they are cutting me open.  Ahhh!!!  But they are way better than surgery because you get a beautiful baby to show for it!

              2. Ever ride in an ambulance?
              Only once.  The daughter of some friends of ours was quad riding on our property.  She decided to ride through some tall (not mown) grass in the middle of our mown field.  There is only one reason for tall grass in the middle of a mown field….boulders.  Needless to say she and the quad went flying.  Both her parents were out so I rode in the ambulance with her.  Turns out she ruptured her spleen and broke her thumb.  After that we had the boulder blown up and we sent her a piece of it. 

              3. How are you in a medical emergency? Panicked? Calm?
              I am relatively calm during a medical emergency but it is a fight to keep the panic under control.  It is after it’s all over and everything is fine that I fall apart.

              4. Do you have a garden? Flowers or veggies?
              Neither…I wish I had both.

              5. When did you move out of your parents’ house?
              I went away to college but was still home on holidays and summers. But once I graduated from college, I packed up my car and headed to Washington, DC.  My college roommate had an apartment there.  I slept on her couch and looked for work.  After about 2 weeks I had a job and an apartment of my own.  I lost that job 2 weeks later.  L  But I was determined that I was not going to go back home with my tail between my legs.  So for the next month or two I hunted for another job during the day and worked in the local mall in the evenings.  I lived on peanut butter and hot dogs during that month.  I was very happy when I would get asked out on a date. Then I would be taken out to dinner and get a decent meal.  LOL!  I finally did get a job that would pay the bills and never did have to move back home.

              The Homeschool Mother’s Journal - 11



              In my life this week...
              Has it been a week ALREADY?!  It was a quiet week…my favorite kind!  I prefer to be home rather running around every day. The major happening of the week was: My oldest turned 20!  How did that happen?? 

              In our homeschool this week...
              We were not as productive as I would have liked but not bad.  We got most things done.  Because I’m feeling tired, I’m moving in slow motion…which means school moves in slow motion.
              We did get our online classes picked out for next year and the girls are all signed up.  I love Potter’s School.  I find it a huge help with my older students. It allows me to farm out those subjects that I don’t feel comfortable teaching…mainly English!

              Places we're going and people we're seeing...
              We picked up the girls’ Civil War Ball gowns after they had been altered.  The girls will be attending a Civil War Ball put on for homeschoolers in our area.  They looked beautiful and are SO excited.

              My favorite thing this week was...
              Sitting down with my sophomore and getting her opinions on her classes for next year.  We also discussed colleges and looked at a few websites. I love making plans!  Looking at colleges for child number 2 is much less stressful than it was the first time through. 

              Homeschool questions/thoughts I have...
              Here’s my question…where DO all the pencils go?  Do you think they are in the same place as the missing socks?

              A photo, video, link, or quote to share...
              This is a photo my daughter took for her Potter’s School Photography class.  It’s a great class.  Oh, and this is our dog, Kay. 




              Tuesday, March 29, 2011

              True Woman | Nothing Left to Give

              This is from the True Woman Blog which is a ministry of Revive Our Hearts.  As someone who struggles with fatigue, I found this blog entry to be very encouraging.

              True Woman | Nothing Left to Give

              Saturday, March 26, 2011

              Book Review: Under the Tuscan Sun by Frances Mayes

              I enjoyed this book; it was like a vicarious vacation to Italy.  Yet, Frances Mayes wasn't vacationing in Italy, she was living there.  It started out as a vacation…several vacations to Italy…eventually she decided that she loved it so much that she bought a house there.  She worked as college professor and was free to live in Italy all summer.  So she took the plunge and bought a dilapidated old stone home in Tuscany.  This book is the story of renovating the house, living in Italy, eating, drinking, gardening, sight-seeing, and life.

              I loved the description of the Italian way of life; the food she ate and cooked; and the garden she planted.  She even includes some recipes in the book. 

              Here are a few of my favorite quotes from the book:

              “Tuscans are of this time; they simply have had the good instinct to bring the past along with them.  If our culture says burn your bridges behind you - and it does – theirs says cross and recross.”

              “What we never knewis the tremendous resurgent power in nature.  The land is implausibly regenerative.  My experience with gardening led me to think plants must be coaxed along.  Ivy, fig, sumac, acacia, blackberry can’t be stopped.  A vine we call ‘evil weed’ twines and chokes.  It must be dug out down to its carrot-sized root; so must nettles.  It’s a wonder nettles have not taken over the world.”

              Friday, March 25, 2011

              The Homeschool Mother's Journal



              In my life this week...
              I have not been feeling well which means not much of anything has gotten done. 

              In our homeschool this week...
              Since I haven’t been feeling well…we didn’t get much school done either.  My kids got all their online class work done but everything they do with me didn’t get much attention.

              My favorite thing this week was...
              My fourth grader had to do a presentation about the sun for her co-op class.  She’s never done a presentation before and required lots of help.  I was resting and when I finally dragged myself into the schoolroom to give her a hand, there where my older two daughters helping her find interesting facts about the sun and printing out pictures for her display board.  Love it!

              What's working/not working for us...
              It’s not working that I’m not feeling well.  :P  Besides that I have been happy with this school year so far and our curriculum.  I THINK I’ve finally given up my perfectionistic attitudes about homeschooling and have learned to ride the ups and downs of each day.  After 14 some years of homeschooling, I find that it is a constant “falling off the horse” and getting back on again.  It doesn’t look like the cover of the Teaching Home….and if you know what the Teaching Home is then you have been around for quite a while.  :)  But it’s all of God’s grace…and sometimes I think that, no one is more familiar with God’s grace on a daily, hourly, minute by minute basis, than a homeschooling mom.
                
              Homeschool questions/thoughts I have...
              I have tried to follow the Classical Method of educating my children in our homeschool.  It is a lofty goal and I fall far short.  As I study Classical Education, I find that there are different understandings of it in the homeschool community.  I see two camps.  The first I call the Nouveau Classical Educators or what I also like to call the "drill them and kill them" crowd.  Then there are those that seek to find the ancient definition of Classical Education which focuses on literature, dialogue, and the training of the appetites.  This is the camp that I try to align myself with.  The more I understand what true Classical Education is the more I see that Charlotte Mason was a true Classical Educator. 

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              “Christian Classical Education is the cultivation of wisdom and virtue by nourishing the soul on truth, goodness, and beauty by means of the seven liberal arts and the four sciences so that, in Christ, the student is enabled to better know, glorify, and enjoy God.” Andrew Kern of CiRCE Institute

              Thursday, March 24, 2011

              Grass Pond Farm

              Darlin and her calf
              That’s the name of our beef farm. We are working on getting our website up and running soon.  Until then…here’s a little introduction to our farm:

              We are a family oriented Hereford farm located in the rolling hills of northwestern New Jersey’s Sussex County. The family consists of Andy, his wife Sheri and their four kids all of which (with the possible exception of mom) are itching for the 2011 show season to start.

              We’re pleased that after clipping and fitting for us since Keystone in 2009 Josh joined us full-time as Farm Manager in November 2010. Together we’re working to produce Hereford cattle that will work and show.

              For 2011 we expect calves out of 20 registered Hereford cows and 8 recipients. Look for us at 10 or so regional cattle shows this year starting with the Big East in May.

              As for recent acquisitions we’re real excited about BOYD PAULA 0058, a February ’10 Bailout heifer we purchased from the Boyds at their 2010 Breeder’s Cup Sale and about the potential of the seven cows we recently bought from the Passwaters in Delaware including STC LOADED LADY 31, HAWK WRB KO CLARABELLE 0606, and JJD VICTORIA 6007 ET (a flushmate to JJD MR GOLD). Last but not least we we’re excited about the new young herd sire, HCC ADVANTAGE X24 that we bought half interest and full possession of from Hausher Cattle Co. last year at KILE. Advantage went on to win his class at the 2011 NWSS and impress more than a few in the barn in Denver. Look for him on the show road in 2011 and in our ad in the 2100 Hereford AI Book.

              To keep it all real we finish and sell for freezer beef about 12 feeder cattle per year along with a like number of hogs. If you’re interested in our natural meats raised without hormones and sub-therapeutic antibiotics, please send the marketing department (Sheri) an email at GrassPondFarm@nac.net and we’ll put you on our customer email list.

              We hope to have our website up and running very soon at www.GrassPondFarm.com.  In the meantime you can contact us at GrassPondFarm@nac.net

              Wednesday, March 23, 2011

              So Heavenly-Minded No Earthly Good?

              "If you read history you will find that the Christians who did most for the present world were precisely those who thought most of the next. . . . It is since Christians have largely ceased to think of the other world that they have become so ineffective in this." 

              C. S. Lewis (Mere Christianity, chapter 10).

              Saturday, March 19, 2011

              The Homeschool Mother's Journal

              I'm joining The Homeschool Chick with her weekly Homeschool Mother's Journal.  Here's my entry for the week:

              In my life this week...
              We had Spring Break last week and went to Quebec to ski.  It was lots of fun but this week we had to face the music.  The girls had lots to catch up on for their online classes.  I had trouble getting out of vacation mode and getting back into “real life”!  So for me, most of the week was spent unpacking, doing laundry, grocery shopping, catching up on my To Do list.

              In our homeschool this week...
              The girls got all caught up and we did the main subjects.  But as usual History, Logic, Morning Time and all those important things…at least I think they are important…didn’t get done.  Sigh!

              Places we're going and people we're seeing...
              We are seeing WAY too much of our orthodontist.  The older two girls each had an appointment this week on different days.  Ugh!  I don’t like having to leave the house so much…I do much better all round when I get to stay home.

              My favorite thing this week was...
              Date night with my hubby.  He’s the best!!

              What's working/not working for us...
              Math U See is working great for us!   I am so impressed by it and wish I had been using it the last 13 years of my homeschooling career.  What’s not working….finding time for History and Morning Time.  I feel like if we could just get up and moving a little earlier then we might have time for those very important things.

              Homeschool questions/thoughts I have...
              It’s time to start planning next school year for my sophomore soon to be junior in High School.  Is Chemistry a required subject for High School?  What is the minimum requirement for science when applying to college?  My daughter’s strengths lie in the area of English rather than Math or Science.  She has taken Biology and Marine Biology (both lab sciences) in High School so far.  I wonder if she must take Chemistry. 

              A photo, video, link, or quote to share...
              “The ability to speak exactly is intimately related to the ability to know exactly. “
              Wendell Berry, “Imagination in Place”

              Five Question Friday

              I decide to participate in My Little Life's Five Question Friday.  Ok, it's Saturday...so I'll do better next week. Here are my answers to the five questions:

              1. Have you ever testified in court? For what?
              Never…thankfully!

              2. Do you still have your wedding dress?
              I still have my wedding dress.  It’s up in the attic all cleaned and boxed up by a professional dry cleaner.  But I always wonder…did they really put my dress in there.  Could they have mixed things up and put someone else’s dress in the box?  I’ve never opened it because I’ve been afraid that it will wreck the preservation of the dress.  Maybe I should peak now that it’s been 25 years!

              3. Is there a special place you like to go when you're happy, sad, stressed, etc.?
              My bedroom.  It’s my little refuge from the world.  It’s quiet and peaceful since the kids usually stay out of there.  And it is clean and picked up for the most part. 

              4. If you have kids, do they sleep with you? If you don't have kids...will you let your kids sleep with you when/if you have them?
              Absolutely not!  I have 4 kids and none of them ever slept with me.  I REALLY need my sleep and I can’t imagine getting any with a baby or a kid in my bed.  My husband’s lucky I let him sleep with me.  J  I always kept my babies in their cribs and I would get up at night to feed them when needed.    They all slept through the night pretty quickly so I didn’t have to get up that much.

              5. Do you watch late night TV?
              We don’t have a TV anymore…which has been a wonderful blessing.  I’m glad we got rid of it!

              Tuesday, March 15, 2011

              Let's hear it for Doctrine!

              "Official Christianity, of late years, has been having what is known as 'a bad press.' We are constantly assured that the churches are empty because preachers insist too much upon doctrine-'dull dogma,' as people call it. The fact is the precise opposite. It is the neglect of dogma that makes for dullness. The Christian faith is the most exciting drama that ever staggered the imagination of man-and the dogma is the drama."

              Dorothy Sayers

              Monday, March 14, 2011

              Miscellaneous Musings on Monday


              Vacations
              We just got back from a wonderful vacation at Mont-Tremblant, Quebec.  There is a great little ski village set up right on the ski slopes.  Andy and the kids could put on their ski boots and carry their skis about 100 yds up to the lift.  I however stayed behind and read, watched TV, shopped and had a pedicure.  I’m not much of a skier. 

              But sometimes I wonder if vacations are worth it.  All the work to get there!  And now that we are home we are playing catch up.  The girls missed 3 days of online classes so they had to hustle to get caught up.  And I’m still in vacation mode, having trouble getting motivated…so I blog.  J

              Blogging
              Speaking of blogging…I’ve been trying to decide if I want to continue.  I don’t want to waste precious time.  But I’ve been thinking that it is helpful to see what I’ve been reading written out.  I see that I’ve been reading too much fluff this year and it is motivating me to read some more serious stuff.  I also think having a blog to keep up with will help me think deeper thoughts…since I will need to say something here from time to time.  So, for now, I will continue to blog.

              Daylight Savings Time
              And now for some deep thoughts…I feel jet lagged from the time change.  Someone must come up with a name for this malady.  At any rate it sure is nice seeing the sun out later in the evening. 

              Preparing for Resurrection Sunday (which I suppose is called Lent)
              I’m reading The Incomparable Christ by J. Oswald Sanders along with the Revive Our Heart broadcast.  They are going through 1 chapter a week up to Resurrection Sunday.  Won’t you join us!

              Ministry Beyond Your Front Door
              Revive Our Hearts’ blog has an entry that talks about ministering to others despite having a family.  I think she has a point.  I really have no other ministry besides my family for now.  And I do want my children to have a service mindset and a concern for the lost.  At the same time, if I neglect my children and their education because of ministry then I’ve failed in my most important calling.  Something to think more about and wrestle with.

              Church
              I’ve been thinking lately about the church and worship and what it should all look like and what has become of the modern or post-modern church.  Here are some interesting thoughts from Carl Trueman from the Reformation 21 blog. 

              “Finally, I worry that a movement built on megachurches, megaconferences, and megaleaders, does the church a disservice in one very important way that is often missed amid all the pizzazz and excitement: it creates the idea that church life is always going to be big, loud, and exhilarating and thus gives church members and ministerial candidates unrealistic expectations of the normal Christian life.  In the real world, many, perhaps most,  of us worship and work in churches of 100 people or less; life is not loud and exciting; big things do not happen every Sunday;  budgets are incredibly tight and barely provide enough for a pastor’s modest salary; each Lord’s Day we go through the same routines of worship services, of hearing the gospel proclaimed, of taking the Lord’s Supper, of teaching Sunday School; perhaps several times a year we do leaflet drops in the neighbourhood with very few results; at Christmas time we carol sing in the high street and hand out invitations to church and maybe two or three people actually come along as a result; but no matter — we keep going, giving, and praying as we can; we try to be faithful in the little entrusted to us.  It’s boring, it’s routine, and it’s the same, year in, year out.   Therefore, in a world where excitement, celebrity, and cultural power are the ideal, it is tempting amidst the circumstances of ordinary church life to forget that this, the routine of the ordinary, the boring, the plodding, is actually the norm for church life and has been so throughout most places for most of the history of the church; that mega-whatevers are the exception, not the rule; and that the church has survived throughout the ages not just – or even primarily – because of the high profile firework displays of the great and the good, but because of the day to day faithfulness of the mundane, anonymous, non-descript  people who constitute most of the church, and who do the grunt work and the tedious jobs that need to be done.   History does not generally record their names; but the likelihood is that you worship in a church which owes everything, humanly speaking, to such people.”

              Wednesday, March 09, 2011

              Fun Quote

              "Laughter is like changing a baby's diaper.
              It doesn't change things permanently,
              but it makes everything OK for a while."

              Author Unknown

              Saturday, March 05, 2011

              Book Review - "Island of the World" by Michael O'Brien

              I finished reading Island of the World by Michael O’Brien.  It took a couple of weeks.  I read it on my Kindle and it seemed long…so I looked it up on Amazon….. 850 pages!  Island of the World is one of the best books I’ve ever read.  It’s difficult to put into words how the book touched me.  It’s a book that goes deep down into your soul.  I wanted to read it fast because I wanted to see what happened next…and yet, I wanted to read it slow because it was full of profound thoughts and insights.  It’s like no other book I’ve read before.  It is beautiful and devastating at the same time.  Ultimately it’s about redemption and forgiveness and it’s about finding peace. 

              Here is a synopsis of the book from Amazon:
              “Island of the World is the story of a child born in 1933 into the turbulent world of the Balkans and tracing his life into the third millennium. The central character is Josip Lasta, the son of an impoverished school teacher in a remote village high in the mountains of the Bosnian interior. As the novel begins, World War II is underway and the entire region of Yugoslavia is torn by conflicting factions: German and Italian occupying armies, and the rebel forces that resist them—the fascist Ustashe, Serb nationalist Chetniks, and Communist Partisans. As events gather momentum, hell breaks loose, and the young and the innocent are caught in the path of great evils. Their only remaining strength is their religious faith and their families.
              For more than a century, the confused and highly inflammatory history of former Yugoslavia has been the subject of numerous books, many of them rife with revisionist history and propaganda. The peoples of the Balkans live on the border of three worlds: the Islamic, the orthodox Slavic East, and Catholic Europe, and as such they stand in the path of major world conflicts that are not only geo-political but fundamentally spiritual. This novel cuts to the core question: how does a person retain his identity, indeed his humanity, in absolutely dehumanizing situations?
              In the life of the central character, the author demonstrates that this will demand suffering and sacrifice, heroism and even holiness. When he is twelve years old, his entire world is destroyed, and so begins a lifelong Odyssey to find again the faith which the blows of evil have shattered. The plot takes the reader through Josip's youth, his young manhood, life under the Communist regime, hope and loss and unexpected blessings, the growth of his creative powers as a poet, and the ultimate test of his life. Ultimately this novel is about the crucifixion of a soul—and resurrection.”


              A few quotes from the book:
              “We are born, we eat, and learn, and die.  We leave a tracery of messages in the lives of others, a little shifting of the soil, a stone moved from here to there, a word uttered, a song, a poem left behind. I was here, each of these declare.  I was here.”

              ***

              “In this world are many people who do not master their bodies.  Such people say that no one can tell them what to do, not even God, and they think that in this way they have no master.  In the end they become slaves to anything.”

              ***

              “’I’m saying that through genuine culture man can know himself, even in nations where his identity is denied.’
              ‘But what do you mean by genuine culture?’
              ‘The beautiful and true!  In music, in poetry, in literature, even in novels without political or historical references, we can apprehend what is not immediately known through rational thought or the accumulation of objective facts.’”

               ***

              “’Culture is the last refuge, the sanctuary, the human place in the midst of the surrounding dehumanization.  Through the arts man is able to know himself, even if only on the intuitive level.  He senses his own worth, even when he cannot articulate is.’
              ‘Can a poem or a song defeat a tyrant?’
              Defeat a killer, defeat atrocities, defeat the bottom falling out of the universe when you least expect?
              ‘Yes. Yes, it can, given enough time.  When a work of art is both beautiful and true, man’s freedom is strengthened by it – both his interior need for freedom and his capacity to seek a rational understanding of it.’”


              Wednesday, March 02, 2011

              Five-a-Month goals – March

              I didn't do too well on my goals this month. Hopefully I will do better in March. Here are my February goals and how I did:

              I will have a Quiet Time where I read my Bible and pray every morning.  I am using a Read thru the Bible in a year plan…and I’m already a week behind.  Sigh!  I used to be very faithful with my Quiet Time but in the last couple of years I've gotten away from it.  I notice a big difference in my walk with the Lord when I’m not spending some quality time with Him every day.
              I didn’t do too well with this one.  I’m now 2 ½ weeks behind on my Read Thru the Bible in a year plan.  :P  Although I have to say, I’ve done better these last few days.

              I will follow my diet of low-carbing; taking in more healthy fats like coconut oil, ghee and raw butter; eating nutritionally dense foods and no snacking every day…except when we go away on vacation.  Then I will cheat with a little wine.
              I’m doing pretty well here.  I did cheat for about 4 days out of the 28 in February…which for me is amazing!

              I will exercise 5 times per week using the PACE program.
              Still need lots of work here!

              I will faithfully school my girls and cover every subject that is scheduled for that day.
              We had one really bad week this month but we are back up on the horse now.

              I will finish reading 2 books this month.  This is a small goal but I think it’s a good place to start.  I love to read and usually have several books going at once but I’m not good at finishing those books.
              I finished my 3 books this month!  One was about 850 pages long, Island of the World but Michael O’Brien…which is one of the best books I've ever read.  I also read, Incognito by Suzanne Allain, only 200 pages and probably one of the worst books I have ever read. And lastly, I read The Accomplished Woman by Jude Morgan which is 416 pages.....and it was not bad but not great. :)

              So for this month, I’m going to keep working on the same goals and I hope to report back that I did much better.